Signs That Your Online Date May Be THE ONE

 

Greetings this new week with the article Signs That Your Online Date May Be THE ONE. It would be lovely to meet The One some day, the one that you can relate to at all levels of your being and depend on in every situation. I think it is as possible online as it is “offline” and this article will be the first step in that direction.

Have a blessed day

Online dating sites have become a huge business over the last few years for many reasons. Some of these dates that come from online contact have been very successful, even going on to culminate in a marriage while others continue to be one failure after another. Many people start feeling as if they should just give up. But before you do that, consider that there are some ways to tell if your online date might possibly be The One.

First of all, he’s not there one minute and gone the next. People online can be quite good at vanishing. You can be in the middle of a chat with him and he suddenly disappears without a word. There’s no contact for weeks and then he suddenly resurfaces like he just talked to you yesterday. If you’re chatting with someone that keeps up frequent and dependable communication, it’s a good thing. They’re probably not talking to anyone else and they’re ready to find someone that will be important to them.

Next, you both decide that you’re ready to meet at the same time. This means that you’re both on the same page and you’re ready to take that next step. There’s a great chance that, if you agree on when you should meet, you’ll agree on many other things as well.

You both start emailing each other regularly about little things that happen throughout the day. Not only that, but you’re both thrilled to get emails from each other. It kind of makes your day. This is great because the majority of life’s little details aren’t really all that important, yet you both love hearing about them.

Another promising sign is that both of you agree on how long someone should be single following the ending of a relationship. The timing also tells you how happy this person is with his life. A fulfilled person won’t feel it’s necessary to jump right back into a serious relationship, whereas an unhappy person will need to find another relationship as soon as possible.

You can share the serious aspects of your life and find humor in them. So what if your dad can’t seem to keep it in his pants and cheats on your mom constantly, and you have a cousin in jail for robbery? It really has nothing to do with you. Someone that gets that and can actually make you laugh about it is someone you definitely want to know better.

Both of you have the same ideas as to what a partner is. It doesn’t matter if you feel that a partner should be a best friend as well as a lover, as long as you both view it the same way, you should give him a chance. Talk this over a bit so you can be sure you’re on the same page.

 

Last of all, you both decide at the same time that you can delete those dating profiles because you feel you’ve met The One. This is, possibly, the most important sign of them all. You’ve both reached the decision that you only want to spend time with each other, and what could be more perfect than that?

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Planning That First Trip Away Together

God day to you this sunday, todays article Planning That First Trip Away Together is about one of the best things for a relationship to grow. Getting away together in a new and relaxing environment could really boost your life together and swipe the stress away. You really owe it to yourself and your partner this and if you cant afford it there may be possibilities for a mini vacation nearby to a beautifyl and calm place. Read on and have a lovely sunday.

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There comes a time in most relationships where the couple decides to go away together for the first time. This is a very exciting time in the relationship and will need a bit of careful planning in order to make everything perfect on this first outing. There are some things that need to be taken into consideration before making this inaugural trip together.

The first thing that must be considered is whether or not you’ve taken things to the level of sleeping together. If that’s the case, then you’ll probably want to get a room together somewhere really nice such as a quaint inn or bed and breakfast. These are usually much more romantic than a huge resort where there will most likely be hundreds of people staying. So, for this first trip away, it’s generally better to opt for a quieter environment. It will help you to spend some true quality time together.

On the other hand, if the two of you haven’t begun sleeping together and this trip is to be that special moment when you move things to the next level, you’ll want to plan things a bit differently. First of all, make your reservations at a place that’s a little off of the beaten path. Try out a romantic cabin where it will be just the two of you and you won’t have to worry about Housecleaning knocking on your door very early in the morning. If you can’t find one of those, do some research and see if you can find a small hotel in a romantic setting. You just want to be somewhere that you’re not disturbed by lots of other people being around.

There are some unique bed and breakfasts around that you can find if you just make a few inquiries and perform a bit of research. These are the ones that don’t have all of their rooms under one roof. You can find everything from an actual cave to tree houses and a few other things in between. Any of them will be great for you to enjoy your first sexual encounter with each other. While you may have to cook for yourselves or go out to restaurants, there will at least be fully stocked pantries and refrigerators.

Of course, when you’re planning your first trip away that will also be your first sexual encounter together, there will be different types of clothing other than the type you will take if you’re going to be staying in separate rooms. So pack accordingly. Obviously, you’ll want sexy lingerie and some more seductive outfits if you’re planning for this trip to also contain The Big Night. If you’re not going to be sleeping together, you can pack some attractive outfits that will generate some interest that can just keep building.

Something else you may want to consider is just how much time you’ll be spending outside of the accommodations. If you plan to do some site seeing, it’s good to research the area before making a reservation. On the other hand, if you’re going to be having that “first time” together, you probably don’t care so much about the surroundings.

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Constructive Arguing

 

Hi there my beloved readers! Todays article Constructive Arguing  is about how to get your words out without hurting to much when you disagree on things. No matter how much you love each others there will be times for arguing, sometimes it can be necessary and about important issues in your relation. Constructive arguing is easier said then done sometimes if we loose respect for our lover and start taking eachother for granted. However im sure this article will give you tips and help to spoke those magic words that heal more then they hurt!

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All couples argue on occasion – some more than others. At times, these arguments grow to such proportions that the couple doesn’t speak for days. Some arguments can get so bad that they end relationships. A lot of couples tend to avoid arguing as often as possible because they feel that it has negative connotations regarding their relationship. That’s not always the case, however.
When couples argue, it’s generally due to something that they simply cannot agree on and each partner feels equally as strongly about their point of view on the topic. Some of these topics are only made to be serious because one of the partners is too self-centered to understand the meaning of compromise. For instance, suppose your families live a significant distance from you in different directions. This isn’t a huge problem except when it comes to major holidays. You would like to split the holidays so that you spend, for example, Thanksgiving with one family and Christmas with the other one. Then, rotate it the next year. However, your partner refuses to see your point of view and insists that the two of you spend ALL holidays EVERY year with his family. This is good cause for an argument.

There may be other things that couples argue about that are more personal such as money, careers, and sex. When it comes to these topics, the arguments can be constructive and actually serve to resolve the issue at hand. While it’s usually not the best idea to let an issue simply sit and grow without being resolved, sometimes the only way to reach a resolution is by letting things come to a boiling point. You can yell, scream, and curse at each other until you both feel better. Then it’s time to sit down and actually talk reasonably. This is when you can get your partner to really hear what you’re saying as well as you being able to understand where he’s coming from.

Arguing doesn’t have to be a bad thing in relationships. If you use your disagreements to make needed improvements to your relationship, it will be much easier to keep things on an even path. Of course, there will always be some debates. After all, not everyone thinks or believes the same way about all things, and that’s a great thing because this would be a very boring world to live in if everyone was exactly alike.

Pick and choose your battles. Not everything is worth turning into a full-fledged debate, which can build into an even larger argument. So when something just isn’t that important to you, let it go and give in. You can even use that in the next issue that comes up for debate. Remind your partner that you let him have his way the last time and you think it’s only fair that you’re allowed to have something the way you want it. Of course, there will be certain things that both of you MUST be happy with such as where to live or what sort of vehicle to get. But those things will be easier to iron out once you’ve got your constructive arguing down to a science.

Don’t let your relationship be ruined in this way. The only way to fix relationship problems is to talk them out. Resist the urge to be passive aggressive and communicate any issues you have with your partner. It is the only way to keep things alive. Get your copy of Concerstion Chemistry and take your communication skills to the next level!

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Get Your Feelings Out

Its a good advice to Get Your Feelings Out as todays article describe. We are unfortunately to often afraid to hurt eachother by showing our true emotions or say how we really feel about something. We may think its bad to have a different opinion then our partner. I think it enrich our relation when we can discuss things without having to agree all the time. We may think that our partner know how we feel without telling them but not many of us are mind readers;) Communication skills are really important and also being able to respect eachother when we disagree on a subject. I think that when we can communicate well we also can solve problems regarding our relationship. If we dont talk to eachother any minor problem can be to big to handle. I hope you will improve your skills after reading todays article;)

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One of the most harmful personality traits in a relationship is that of passive aggressiveness. A person with passive aggressive tendencies hides their feelings rather than discussing the problem and getting it out in the open. Instead of communicating with their partners honestly about what’s bothering them, a passive aggressive person will shut up their feelings, stop talking, glare, sulk, and generally put up a virtual stone wall. They refuse to talk and just let their resentment, hurt or anger dam up. They’re not going to show you just how much something is bothering them. Instead, they’ll pretend to be agreeable and friendly, like nothing is wrong.

Everyone shuts down sometimes. It’s not unusual to do that. However, the person that does this one hundred percent of the time will eventually erupt like a volcano once their emotions have reached the boiling point, or there’s simply no more room behind that dam for one more negative feeling. When this happens, you truly don’t want to be in the way of that outpouring of emotions or you could get hurt in the fallout.

Rather than use this passive aggressive behavior to handle things that you don’t like in your relationship, try opening up a bit more about the way you’re feeling. Communicating your thoughts and feelings in an honest way is the only way to actually resolve any problems that may be present in your relationship. When you hold in how you feel about something, the problem only becomes worse. Unresolved issues in any relationship can be their undoing, and when you go on pretending that everything is fine with you, you’re going to see just how much damage can be done to the relationship.

When your partner says or does something that hurts your feelings or makes you angry, don’t act like it is ok. That’s what a passive aggressive person does and it only makes things worse. All the while you’ve got this friendly smile plastered on your face, your feelings are seething on the inside and your blood is boiling. Holding all of that on the inside is akin to sweeping problems under the rug. There’s only so much room under that rug for problems to accumulate. Think of this when you start holding in your feelings as there also only so much room in there for your feelings. Eventually, that dam will burst and it won’t be pretty.

You may feel it’s better to hide your feelings rather than take a chance on an ugly confrontation or an upsetting scene of some sort. It may seem that you’re not hurting anyone by hiding the way you feel but, in the end, that’s not true. You’re hurting yourself, for one, and you’re also hurting your relationship. Each time that you let something pass that bothers you, it erodes the foundation of your relationship a little bit more.

Don’t let your relationship be ruined in this way. The only way to fix relationship problems is to talk them out. Resist the urge to be passive aggressive and communicate any issues you have with your partner. It is the only way to keep things alive. Get your copy of Concerstion Chemistry and take your communication skills to the next level!

 

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