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Love Poem: In Spirit We Are One…

Do you know that i love you
Do you know how much i care
Did you forget it
When your heart was filled 
With pain and despair
 
Do you know how close i am
Do you hear my gently voice
Does it matter to you now
When your feeling lonely and scared 
Without a choise
 
Please never doubt it
Im always here for you
Please always know it
Because my heart
Will forever
Belong to you
And my wings
Will always
Carry you through
 
Even the darkest night
Wont scare you anymore
Even the hardest fight
Wont break your rising force
In spirit we are one
One mind 
One heart
One soul

       DickScott© 2014

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Are You Being Too Agreeable for Love to Last?

First of all i want to thank you all who read and subscribe to this blog and i really hope you get some valuable tips and advice! We have a foggy, cold morning here in Sweden today but i hope the sun will shine and brighten up our day;)
Todays article Are You Being Too Agreeable for Love to Last?  has some good points on arguing but my opinion is that we must be very careful so we dont go into some habit of arguing over minor issues because that will not make our love grow. But clear the air about what we do feel is not wrong, even if we are in a relationship it does not mean we wont have some disagreements.  I think that one of the important issues in a relation is to explore ourselves with help of each other. When our relation works it help us to know ourselves better. I use to think that we are infact mirrors of each other in some way and we also reflect back what others think and say about us. Infact on a deeper level we are all connected but thats a different subject;) So have a fantastic day and here is todays article:
Dick Scott
Most people reading this will not think it’s possible to have a partner that’s too agreeable. Anyone who has been in a relationship knows that two different personalities will eventually get on each other’s nerves. It’s a fact of life, when two people occupy the same space, they will occasionally overstep boundaries, hurt feelings, or simply make one another madder than the hatter in Alice in Wonderland. The people you love most often drive you the craziest.
Arguing, in these situations is a normal response. On occasion, there may even be dish flinging, clothes throwing, knock down drag out kinds of disagreements (often followed by mind-blowing making-up sessions). It’s normal to fight. It’s even natural. What isn’t natural, in relationships, is to always agree or never fight. Arguments are important tools in relationships. They do more than just let off a little steam. Here are a few reasons why you need to have the occasional argument in your relationship.
Arguments Clear the Air
They are important tools for letting your partner know how you really feel. IN relationships where couples never fight, it’s often the first fight, the one that reveals all the pent up frustrations, hurt, and anger, that result in the ending of that relationship. Arguments let the other person know when how you feel, how you’re hurting, and what to avoid in the future.
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Arguments Show Engagement in the Relationship
They certainly bring an element of excitement into the relationship. They let your partner know you’re there and hold nothing back. They show that you are passionately involved in the relationship and that you do care. They serve as a barometer for the level of affection in the relationship, in many cases, and are important tools for your partner to understand how vested in the relationship you really are.
Arguments Establish Important Issues for Both of You
We all know there are hot-button political and religious issues that should not be discussed in polite society. The same holds true when it comes to relationships. Those topics aren’t always as clearly defined as religion and politics. In some relationships it’s cooking, mechanical abilities (did anyone else notice how Jill on Home Improvement always quietly called in a professional once Tim finished fixing things?), family, friends, or even politics and religion.
Once you establish that these are hot topics for you by having that first heated argument, you know to back off and avoid discussing the issue. Sometimes, you must agree to disagree. But, if you never let your partner know how you really feel and how important the issue is for you, then he or she is likely to keep discussing it causing your blood to boil. Unless you let your partner know how you feel, your partner is going to assume you agree.
Don’t let your first fight be the final blow for your relationship. Learn to speak up and let your partner know what you really think and feel. Most important of all, learn to fight fair so that the disagreements and arguments you do have are productive rather than destructive.
I wish you a lovely day!
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Do All Cheating Men Leave?

The topic of todays article  Do All Cheating Men Leave? is of great importance. How to handle men/women cheating is not easy but if the bounds between you are strong its easier to forget and forgive. I hope you will get help from reading this:

When your husband cheats, it does a real number on your self-esteem. Even worse, it undermines your faith in your husband and the love he has for you. That probably wasn’t his intention when he made the decision to cheat. It’s just another byproduct of the act. But, does his cheating mean he’s actually thinking about leaving? The good news is probably not. In fact, leaving has probably never even crossed his mind.

Here are a few of the reasons why leaving is rarely the end game when men cheat.

If he Wanted to Leave he Would Have Left Before he Cheated

Seriously, if that was his ultimate goal, he doesn’t need to go through the act of cheating and the emotional fallout that comes along as a result. Chances are he never thought he would get caught. Quite often he’s riddled with guilt in the aftermath and has no intention of cheating again. Sometimes it’s a relationship on the side though. Not one he wants instead of his relationship with you, but one that he enjoys in addition to the one he has with you.

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It’s his way of having his cake and having another one on the side. The one on the side is nice for brief periods of time, but not one worth risking his family and life at home in order to have full time.

He’s Probably Not Thinking about You at All

Truthfully speaking, if he WAS thinking about you, he probably wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. Thinking isn’t high on the priority list when cheating takes place. For men, it goes back to primitive man when populating the planet was the genetic directive. This was back in the day when men had many wives and mortality rates were high for women, infants, and children.

That doesn’t excuse his bad behavior. It’s just trying to give you a little bit of insight into what’s going on in his mind when the cheating takes place (not much of anything). The good news is that he isn’t trying to hurt you, break your heart, or leave you behind.

Despite what you’ve heard about cheating and working things out, it is a difficult thing for most marriages to recover from. Your reaction is just as important as him making a conscious and dedicated to decision to do whatever it takes to restore the broken trust in the relationship. Once you understand that it isn’t about you at all, you can begin to rebuild and redefine your marriage. Only then, can you move forward and hope to save your marriage in the long run — something both of you probably want to do.

Thanks for reading and i hope you will begin to rebuild your trust and love for eachother in the best way possible.

Yours Sincerely

Dick Scott Admin

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