Good day to you this thursday before the Christmas week. There are a little to plan and fix before Santa Claus is coming and it could sometimes feel a bit overwhelming. I do appreciate you taking the time to read my blog and hopefully it gives you hope for a coming relation or for the relation you have. Todays article Be Yourself And Only Yourself tells a lot already in the headline. In life we should not try to copy some else; there are only one of you and you are unique. Use what you have and be who you are, then you will attract both the right situations and the right relations for you to live a happy life which we all deserve.
Blessings to you!
Dick Scott
There are a lot of guys out there that have seen television shows and movies that have one of those dating guru type guys promising to get you any woman you ever wanted to fall madly in love with you. While these “guru’s” are making quite a lot of money with their promises, what they aren’t telling you is that it’s all a scam. They want you to give them their hard earned money so that they can go out and buy things while you sit at home reading their information.
For the most part, these guys promise you the world but very rarely ever deliver. In fact, if you actually look at what they are trying to sell you, you will find that all you have to do is go out and act like a jackass, and you will get laid every night of the week. The truth is, any woman that would fall for any guy that acts that way deserves the relationship she ends up with. If you want to have a real relationship, then you are going to have to be yourself.
Being yourself is one of the hardest and most important things that you can do in order to gain the trust that a relationship is based on. If you go into the beginning of a relationship with her thinking you are some flashy rich guy, and it turns out that you drive a Pinto and live in your mother’s basement, when she finds out you can pretty much kiss any chance of being with her again goodbye. Women don’t want to be lied to, even if it’s something small, and starting a relationship out this way will cause it to end very quickly.
All those gurus want you to ACT like you are confident when the truth is you should BE confident. There is no reason for you to act like you are confident it you really aren’t. The woman you are interested in is going to know right away if you have the confidence to be with her or not. Think of it as eating fast food your entire life and suddenly finding yourself in a 5 start French restaurant, ordering wine in French. The waiter is going to know that you aren’t from France, and she is going to know you aren’t confident.
The best thing to do is be truthful and honest with her. Tell her that you don’t have the money to go out to a fancy restaurant, then turn around and make a romantic picnic out of things you can afford. Do something small but elegant to show her who you are on the inside and you will find that it will impress her much more than trying to pull off the bad boy routine. The choice is yours, but making it the right choice is what she deserves from you. If you feel you need to boost your self confidence there are a review below for you to read…
When I hear about people having dating and relationship problems, I hear every excuse: no time for a relationship, focusing on my career right now, haven’t found the right one yet, not living in the right place to meet nice men or women, haven’t met one worth keeping, or you simply don’t know why love and attraction has eluded you and you feel frustrated.
For all the people that come to me with dating and attraction frustrations, there are as many products out there that promise you the holy grail. They promise to take you in hand and learn how to dress, how to deliver openers and one-liners, they tell you how to behave, how to maximize your statistical chances with the opposite sex, and even how to discover a previously unknown dating rule. Needless to say, when I see a new product come across my desk, I am often a little hesitant to get excited.
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All the best,
Dick Scott
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