Welcome to sundays article How Do You Know When to Give Up On Getting Your Ex Back? You really cant know that for shure but this article may give you some good advice. I have been in the situation myself of hoping to long for my ex to be back without any luck. It was that first romance and first love that are so hard to forget about. It is like a battle between your heart and your mind with yourself somewhere in the middle. Love is strong and those bounds last forever even if the physical bounds disappear.
You’ve been fighting the good fight to get your ex back for a long time now. No matter how hard you try or how long you fight, you just can’t seem to get the result you’re looking for. You know you still love your ex. There’s no doubt about that. But, you’re beginning to wonder if you should just give up. You’re starting to think you should try to move on with your life. How do you know when it’s time to move on?
“Of all the words of mice and men, the saddest are, ‘It might have been.’” — Kurt Vonnegut.
Sometimes, the best choice is to move on. But, if you’re not ready to make that choice (in your heart, mind, and soul); it’s one that will leave you haunted with questions for as long as you live. You’ll always have this niggling doubt of “what if?” lingering in the back of your mind.
Before you give up on getting your ex back, perhaps it’s time to change your approach.
What have you done to get your ex back?
You say you’ve tried everything and that nothing is working. Have you tried nothing?
I know it sounds completely counterintuitive to do nothing and expect results, but if what you’ve been doing isn’t working and you’re already contemplating giving up, what does it hurt to make it appear as though you have?
The amazing thing about human nature is that we want what we don’t have. As long as you’re trying to get your ex back, your ex knows that he (or she) has you. You’re going to be there if your ex calls and asks for help or just needs a friendly ear — and your ex knows it. Let your ex get a taste of what life is truly like without you in it.
That’s when your ex is going to begin to realize what was lost when the relationship ended. As long as you’re calling, texting, coming by, and lending support in countless other ways, your ex hasn’t lost anything. Your ex hasn’t felt the loss of the relationship because your ex is still receiving the benefits of the relationship.
Make yourself scarce, if not completely absent from your ex’s life and see how long it takes your ex to come to you. Don’t let this time go idly by. Use it wisely to develop a plan of action for what you’re going to do and say when you’re ex does decide to pick up the phone to see how you’re doing. I can help you with that!
There Are NO Impossible Situations
Now, what I have noticed in helping so many folks, is that there are UNDERLYING REASONS and MOTIVES as to why their exes take them back…that lay hidden from sight of most people…
And once you know and UNDERSTAND and are given just a little guidance on what to do and when to do it…it is like being handed “the recipe” for love if you will…
Because not only will you be able to get your ex back, you also will be much better equipped to KEEP THEM long, long into the future…
Isn’t that great news?
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How to get your head on straight. Use my Fast Forward Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression…You CAN feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)
Do they still care? Discover the TELL TALE clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart…and I don’t care what they say… This is all you need to look for PERIOD! (Page 21)
Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)
Do you know the core reason why men leave women? …it is not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am SHOCKED most women can’t answer this question. Men desire this ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and they will be yours FOREVER.(Page 5)
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Are they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly as catastrophic as it first appears…and how to use the fact that 90% of rebound relationships never work out to your advantage. (Page 18)
Were you the one that had the affair? How to use the “clean slate” technique in conjunction with one other secret technique and come a looong way to forgiveness in the shortest amount of time. (Special Bonus Included)
When to apologize and when you shouldn’t. In the right circumstance just one good apology will land you back in their arms…other times an apology will blow up in your face and hurt your future chances. (Special Bonus Included)
The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you. (Page 33)
Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and “breaking the pattern” you can. Quickly and easily.
The Instant Reconnect Technique – I almost didn’t include this one because it may be too potent. It is “psychological judo” and will trick your ex lovers mind into thinking you are still together. This isSUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defense against it. (Page 43)
Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date. Follow my instructions and it will be easy as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked hundreds if not thousands of times. (Page 38)
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Sex? When you should have sex during the reconciliation process. Both men and women get this completely wrong. Guys you will speed up the process immensely armed with this information. Ladies, most of you nearly destroy your chances because you sleep with him too soon. (Page 46-48)
What foods toy with your emotions and what foods help put you in balance. Putting your relationship back together is hard enough,make sure you are eating foods that will help you. (Page 26-28)
Decisions you should actually put off until you are back together. (Page 60)
How to use the Fast Forward Technique to overcome hang ups you may have with dieting, exercise, self esteem and other challenges that stem from negative feelings. (Page 14)
Recapture the romance you had when love your love was new. Impossible? Not once you learn the magic of Pattern Breaking and you stir in a dose of the techniques in Chapter 4.
Ladies if you follow the advice in Chapter 6, he will NOT be able to get you out of his mind – (It’s just the way men are wired.)- He will start CALLING YOU again and you will be shocked at the complete transformation he makes!
Afraid you will just start fighting again once your back together? How to diffuse arguments beforethey start. This isso simple and works so well you will swear it’s “magic”…and it only takes one person!
And a whole lot more…