Rekindle the Love

Rekindle may not be the best of words since love doesn’t disappear. It just gets pushed to the back burner as other problems become the focus of your lives. However, the most valuable lesson you can learn is that if you give love with no obligation and without expecting anything in return it will be returned to you tenfold.

While communication does form an important part of putting your problems behind you and working on solutions for the future, it’s also vitally important to learn what each other needs in order to feel loved by you.

Rekindle the Love

This could be something as simple as learning to listen when one of you wants to talk, or spending time together laughing at silly movies, or it could be always remembering to hug each other before leaving. It makes no difference how big or how small the gesture, everyone has something they would appreciate you did for them to show them you care.

If you and your ex have only just started seeing each other once again, be sure to take things slowly. Don’t arrange to see each other every single day, but try for perhaps a couple of times a week. This gives you both a chance to miss each other during the days when you don’t speak, but it also creates a sense of anticipation for the next date.

Plan fun dates together that highlight the enjoyment you get out of each others company. These don’t have to be expensive outings. You might decide to stay in and watch a fun movie, or take a walk along the beach, or meet up with friends. Do whatever feels fun and natural so you both begin to remember the good times more often than the bad.

Make sure you keep the deep and meaningful stuff to a minimum at this point. After all, you want to build a long term relationship based on mutual love, trust and respect here, but it’s also important to remind each other of how much you enjoy each others company.

The difficulty with this phase of getting your ex back is the temptation to call them all the time to check who else they’re with or what they’re doing when they’re not with you. Men and women can often find this kind of constant calling and jealous questioning to be a sign of desperation or mistrust. These signs can often make your ex believe it’s just too difficult to pursue you any longer and back away again.

Learn to trust that your ex is still easing slowly back into the relationship, so be sure to extend a little faith that you’re the person your ex really wants to be with and allow each other a bit of space between dates.

As time passes, your ex should realize that you really are the person of his or her dreams. You’ll notice contact becoming more regular and dates becoming more frequent. When you notice this happening, you’ll know your ex is back.
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Close To You

Leafs are falling 

The trees are crying 

The winds are getting colder 

Days are getting shorter 

The nights are getting darker 

Only one thing matter to me 

What i really need 

Is 

To be as close 

To you 

As you are 

To me 

DICKSCOTT© 2011

The Flower Of My Life

You Are The Flower Of My Life

Now You Are Gone

My Days Are Empty

Try To Stay Strong

Still I Believe In A Miracle

That Once We Will Meet Again

Your Eyes Are My Heaven

My Tears Are The Rain

DickScott2013©

Rebuilding Trust With Your Ex

Regardless of how you may feel about your ex, you know that the most important thing is to do what is best for your children. They deserve to have a relationship with their father, no matter how you might feel about him right now.

Communication is key and you will both have to work at rebuilding trust between you to be able to do what is best for the children and make logical decisions based on the facts and not on emotions, as co-parenting means that you will have to make certain decisions together. In other words, when deciding what school to send your children to, for example, dont disagree with his suggestion just because he made it, disagree with him if you have good reason to, not just for the sake of it.

The sad thing is that many people ruin their relationship with their children due to petty and spiteful things they do just to get back at their ex. You may think that you have won a victory but have you really? Or are you just being spiteful and forgetting to look at the bigger picture and who else may be affected by you hanging on to your resentment.

Rebuilding Trust With Your Ex

On the other hand if he has never taken an interest in the kids and doesn’t want to know, you can throw this guide out. Do remember that talking ill of their father to the children will only make them feel insecure about themselves. They will end up believing they did something to warrant this reaction from their father so try to keep that in mind when talking to them.

Here are some tips to help you rebuild trust with your ex and smooth the path to a healthy relationship with him and your children.

Consistency

Consistency is very important and can make or break your attempts. Being consistent means keeping your word when you promise to take the kids to see him, for example. If you break your promise out of spite, just to try and hurt him, you will end up hurting the children more, and your relationship with them. They will end up not trusting anything you say to them in future and will begin to see you as the person trying to keep them away from their dad. This will also happen if you speak badly of your ex in front of the children.

The worst thing you can do is to be disrespectful of him or to criticize him to your children. Remember he is their father and you will end up alienating the children if every other word out of your mouth is against him.

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Realizing Your Ex Is Gone

The sad truth about all people is that we never fully comprehend or appreciate what we have until we lose it and this is also true of relationships. We tend to take the beautiful moments for granted and only focus on the bad times, usually escalating arguments into fighting matches that leaves both parties involved with terrible wounds.

If you have already gone past that stage and your partner has decided to end the relationship you may be in a state of total shock because you maybe never even saw it coming.

The first stage is total and complete denial, you can’t believe this is happening, it’s not real, they will be back, it’s only a heat of the moment decision, are all thoughts that are running around in your head.

Then you start finding it difficult to breathe as you realize that it actually did happen and they are gone. You feel as if someone is ripping the heart out of your chest and the pain is unbearable. You don’t want to face the world and you feel there is nothing that will ever make you feel better. You shut yourself off from the world for days on end, still hoping that maybe if you go sleep when you wake up you will find it was a nightmare.

Unfortunately, when you wake up nothing has changed and your love is still gone. Now you have to try and pull yourself together as much as you can because you have to get to work and you can’t look like a complete mess. You go through your day in a completely catatonic state, unable to pay attention to anything.

You start to hate people who tell you there’s plenty of other fish in the sea – because you know you only want THAT fish.

After a while, you realize you can’t live without your ex.

Realizing Your Ex Is Gone

Everywhere you go, everything you see reminds you of the love you once shared and it is eating you up inside. From the couch where you used to cuddle to watch a movie, to your favorite restaurant where you laughed together over a plate of pasta, to the park bench where you used to sit together and watch the people walk by.

That is the moment you decide that you want your ex back, but not just any way. Where possible, you want to rekindle the love that was the foundation of such a beautiful relationship.

However, you must be careful as you start to rekindle your relationship with your ex. To much too soon and you will drive him further away. In the next few series of articles you will begin to see the steps that you must take.
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Loves Like A River

Loves like a river
Inside of you
So close to magic
Eternal youth
Let your light shine forever
Let your wings touch the sky
Free like the eagle
In your fathers eye

DICKSCOTT2011©

On Wings Of Love

On wings of love you will break every chain

On wings of love you will never surrender

On wings of love you will always be strong

On wings of love you will fly together forever again

DickScott2013©

Get Your Ex Back Fast

When you set out to get your ex back there is often a fine and subtle line from having the process look natural or you looking desperate by your efforts. Things can come out the way you don’t mean them to, bad luck can intervene and you can meet them somewhere you weren’t prepared for and look like you are following them everywhere, and any number of other outside effects can mess up even the best laid plans. It can feel impossible to get them back without these things happening, but when they do you may think about giving it up.

Technology has come a long way in a few years and  text messaging is one of the ways most people communicate with each other today. We’re going to utilize text messages throughout this article to help you get your ex back. One of the biggest benefits of texting back your ex is that you don’t have to worry about looking desperate in front of them which will solve many of the above possible problems you may face.

Plan What You Intend To Say

You might have an urge to text them everything you’re feeling right then, but this is akin to not looking before crossing a street or jumping without making sure you’re going about to fly off a cliff. Being spontaneous is good and should be used in your life, but not here. Plan out carefully what you intend to say to your ex. You could use quotes they like to start it off. You’ll want to tell them that you are still interested in making things work. The goal is that you want to create communicate that is ongoing. This can start the ball rolling to earn back their trust in you and affection.

Paint A Picture

As convenient and nice text messaging is one thing it lacks is tonality and emotion since it’s just written text at the end of the day. You want to paint a picture in the mind of your ex that is vivid and real. You want your ex to know that you accept the break up and that is fine while also tapping into their brain a level deeper to connect with them. This will help you avoid looking desperate as well while affecting your ex psychologically.

Get Your Ex Back Without Looking Desperate

Know What Not To Send

You can’t just delete a text message someone has already seen. That Submit button comes with a lot of risk if you aren’t aware of what can give off a bad impression of you. Before you hit Submit think if this is something you can live with knowing once it’s out there it will be too late to delete it. Saying the wrong things will just push your ex further away. You probably don’t want to text your ex that you miss them. Never text your ex that you are miserable. Avoid anything that will make you look desperate to your ex. If you are having doubts on whether or not you should send that message the answer is probably no.

Don’t Make Your Ex Defensive

Some things you should just avoid over text message. Don’t overdo it and aggravate them, don’t use this time to point out his faults in the relationship. When getting your ex back any negatives at all can sabotage your progress so don’t text him these things because you have the luxury of not being face-to-face, you can still create damage that can be hard to work through and just add to whatever problems caused the break up. If you end up fighting with your ex over text messaging then put it away until you have a cooler head. When your ex gets defensive it’s time to stop. You are trying to rebuild a bridge not burn another one.

Don’t Sound Clingy or Desperate

Remember once those text messages are sent they are gone and deleting them won’t take what you said back. Watch carefully what you say and how you say it. Your ex may even be able to use those text messages against you if you have gone too far. You need to be strong and stand your ground without coming off as desperate. You need to position yourself in a position of power and equal footing in these messages or you can become too accommodating quickly. Don’t give up ground or control because your heart suddenly wants to take the driver’s seat.

Proofread!

As we’ve said before once that message is sent it is gone. You can’t take it back. Reread your message once and then again to make sure your eyes didn’t skim over common errors. Remember auto-correct will be right there with you trying to change the meaning of your messages completely if you aren’t paying attention. Look for phrases that have double meanings or could be confused to mean something else. If you think it can be said in a better way it probably can.

These tips will help you get your ex back while avoiding looking desperate. While you avoid the face-to-face meeting you can gain great ground on restoring the relationship. You’ll have to meet with them eventually and this can help make that meeting happen on the best terms possible.
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Get Your Ex Lover Back Fast

When you lose your husband, wife, or your boyfriend or girlfriend it can bring your life to a screeching halt as you deal with the pain of the break up. Your thoughts will wander to what are they doing now, what did they break up, what can you do about it. It’s just not possible for you to wrap your mind around the thought they could be with somebody else. Getting back together with your ex lover seems hopeless.

There must be something you can do, right? You know thinking about it every moment of the day isn’t productive, but keeps them in your head. Whatever happened to end the relationship you can get your ex lover back fast if take this first moment, to take a deep breath and think, then keep reading.

The first change you need to make is within yourself. You need to discover your self worth again. The bitter truth of the situation is now that you are apart you have plenty of time to look inside you. Improve yourself. The break up was not an accidental, though it may have been sudden, so some sort of existing problem was there. You want to reflect your rediscovery of self worth back into the world with new clothes, staying healthy and working out, and be rediscovering old hobbies or finding new ones. Your ex lover will see this, or get word of it through mutual friends, and become aware of this change.

The next thing you need to do is go out with some friends and have some drinks, go on dates again and meet new people, and generally just be social again. Be social like you used to be, but since you’ve rediscovered yourself it will give an all new impression on people, especially your ex. You are also not hiding out at your house and disconnecting from the world and of the two this is the healthier option. Don’t let your social life suffer because of the break up. It’s good for you and you ex will see you are displaying the confidence and assurance that they were attracted to.

Get Your Ex Lover Back Fast

Continuing along this idea is that you need to be outside, social, and seen in places as happy, enjoying life, and excited about life again. If you go to social events, perhaps weddings or parties, then it’s ok to drink, but don’t drink so much you are drunk. You may still be holding those feelings of your ex lover inside and this is not a situation in which you want them all to come out because your filer is gone from alcohol. Don’t get out of control, but have fun, and be social.

To get back your ex lover fast you need to avoid calling them constantly no matter how much you feel the need to. This is a counter intuitive thing but it must be done. You are working several lines at once right now and this is one of them. Your ex lover needs to be see, or be aware, of how happy you are and that your life didn’t stop because they’re no longer in it. The longer you are away the more they can miss you. There is no opportunity for them to miss you if you call them all the time, text message them hundreds of times a day, or leave them Facebook messages or emails. Limit the contact so that they have the chance to see how their life is without you in it. They are watching from the sidelines as you are out having fun, being with friends, making new friends and meeting new people, and looking better than you ever have. You can get them to pursue you this way.

These strategies work because they are all set up with an end goal in mind that as much as you miss and want your ex lover back you’re not going to be the one doing the chasing. You’re going to use their human nature against them. Curiosity, wondering, questioning, how can this be? You give them the opposite impression they’re expecting and keep the contact limited so they have to find other ways to get answers. Their imagination will run wild thinking of what they’re hearing about and what might also be happening.

Take note and think about this game plan well. Getting your ex lover back fast is not impossible to do and many people before you have thought the same, but got their ex back. There is no reason why you can’t do it too.
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